Cohorts capped at 9. Application only.
If you're a dad... stop losing time you'll never get back.
Your roundtable of 9 vetted, high-performing dads, meeting bi-weekly to keep you honest. Show up with the thing you keep putting off, leave with people who won't let you drop it again.
Small cohorts. Weekly accountability. No fluff.
Someday isn't a plan. It's a place good dads go to disappear.
I spent years telling myself "someday" about the same thing. I finally quit renegotiating with myself the day I said it out loud to my wife and my best friend, and put a year on the line. That's the only reason it stuck. This cohort exists because private promises don't work. Public ones, with something real at stake, do.
Maybe it's taking your wife on a real date again, not just dinner while you both stare at your phones. Maybe it's the phone that doesn't leave the kitchen after 7pm so your kids get you, not a version of you. Maybe it's the drink you keep telling yourself you'll cut back on tomorrow. Maybe it's the workout you keep promising to start Monday. Maybe it's the job you've wanted to go after for two years but haven't sent the email. Whatever it is, it becomes the one thing you're accountable for, out loud, every week.
Be More Present
Put the phone down. Close the laptop. Take your wife on a real date again. Learn to actually be in the room with the people who need you most.
Move on What Matters
Career change. Your health. The hard conversation you've been avoiding. Whatever your "someday" is, this is where it becomes a next step.
Stay in the Fight
Accountability partners who text and call, especially on the nights it would be easier to slide. A community of dads who get it. You won't drift back to autopilot.
Why This Works
Two other dads know exactly what you said you'd do this week. Not nine acquaintances, not an app, two guys who check in on you and expect an answer. Every other week, you bring it to the full roundtable, men working through the same thing you are, so you're not carrying fatherhood alone. No app, no tracker, no gimmick, just people who won't let you go quiet.
How It Works
No modules. No workbooks. Weekly check-ins with two other dads, a bi-weekly roundtable call, and optional monthly guest sessions to go deeper.
Weekly Accountability Trio
You're paired with two other dads for the length of your time in the roundtable. Quick check-ins every week, by text or call, someone always knows what you said you'd do.
Bi-Weekly Roundtable Call
The full cohort of 9 gets on a call every other week. Trios report in, you hear how the other guys are doing, and you get sharpened by dads walking the same road.
Monthly Guest Calls (Optional)
Once a month, an invited guest goes deep on a topic that matters to dads. Real conversations, real depth, totally optional.
Hey there,
I was 50 hours into a graduate degree towards becoming a therapist when I walked away. I didn't believe the program was built to actually serve men, not the way I thought men needed to be served. So I left.
I'd already been coaching men since 2010, starting in the Marine Corps. In 2018, I started my first men's group after watching the same pattern show up everywhere I looked, college roommates, Marines I served with, coworkers. Different lives, same quiet struggle. Good at their jobs. Leading teams, hitting numbers, getting promoted. And then arriving at the thing they'd worked toward, only to feel unfulfilled by it, and distracted and disengaged at home. Same pattern, different guy: the marriage that's coasting, the body he's stopped taking care of, the drink doing more work than it should, the job he keeps telling himself he'll finally go after. Nobody around you is going to say that out loud, without anyone holding them accountable to being present, to building a life of intention instead of just success on paper.
Nobody around you is going to say that out loud. That's the gap this roundtable closes. Not another podcast to listen to alone. A small roundtable of men who know exactly what you said you'd do this week, and expect an answer.
- Nick
Marine Veteran. Certified Executive Coach. Recovering someday-sayer.
You don't need more advice. You need people who won't let you slide.
Is This You?
This is for you if:
- You feel the pull between being the provider and being present, and you're done letting one win by default
- You lead a team, run a business, or carry real responsibility at work
- You're willing to show up every week, for yourself and for the roundtable, no excuses
- You're willing to be uncomfortable, because comfortable is what got you here
- You're willing to be vulnerable with men who aren't your wife, your therapist, or your buddy from college
- You actually want to grow, not just talk about growing
This isn't for you if:
- You want a casual chat group with no stakes
- You're not willing to be on camera and show up weekly
- You want advice without being willing to act on it
- You're looking for a place to vent instead of a place to change
Still reading? Good. Here's what happens next.
How Applications Work
Not every dad is a fit for this roundtable, and that's the point.
Join the Waitlist
Get notified the moment applications open for the next cohort.
Short Application
A few questions about where you're at, and what you're ready to work on.
Intro Call with Nick
A real conversation, not a sales pitch. We figure out together if this is the right fit, for you and for the roundtable.
Cohort Placement
If it's a fit, you're placed in the next available cohort. If it's not, I'll tell you honestly, and point you somewhere better suited if I can.
At the end of every 90-day cohort, we give 5% of membership dues to a cause the roundtable chooses together.
Nominated and voted on by the group, every cycle.
FAQ
Stop saying someday. Start showing up every week.
This isn't for every dad. Cohorts capped at 9, filled by application only. Join the waitlist to be notified the moment applications open.